Welcome to the November edition of Tips and Topics and a happy Thanksgiving to all in the USA.
In SAVVY, when clients present with mental health problems and are also using alcohol and other drugs, there could be three diagnostic possibilities. When mental health clinicians are not savvy about addiction and vice versa, misdiagnosis is easy to do.
In SKILLS, assessment guidelines on timelines and drug-free periods can help tease apart what is going on in the relationship between substance use and mental health signs and symptoms.
In SOUL, I invite you to ponder what you might say at the Thanksgiving dinner table when someone says: “Let’s share what you are grateful for this year.” Try out Marshall Rosenberg’s modified 3-step process.
David Mee-Lee, M.D.
DML Training and Consulting
Recently a friend introduced me to his 36 year old daughter who had just started seeing a therapist for anxiety. I talked briefly with the young woman who knew I am a psychiatrist and she was surprisingly quite open saying, unsolicited, that she was a “functional alcoholic”. She has quite a demanding job with much responsibility and is doing well in her work. But she went on to tell me that she often opens a bottle of wine at night and ends up drinking the whole bottle. She felt a good connection with her therapist who is doing cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) with her.
It wasn’t my place to do a clinical evaluation, but her drinking raised a red flag for me and got me wondering:
Unfortunately too many mental health trained clinicians are not savvy about addiction, believing that substance use is just a self-medication coping skill for unresolved mental health issues.
Tip 1
Risky substance use can be a self-medication coping mechanism. But it can be an indicator of a co-occurring substance use disorder that needs evaluation.
When clients present with mental health problems and are also using alcohol and other drugs, there could be three (not mutually exclusive) diagnostic possibilities:
Tip 2
It is easy to label people with mental health signs and symptoms as having a mental disorder and prescribe medication. It is better to medicate diagnoses not signs and symptoms.
This is why all behavioral health professionals need to be savvy and skilled in co-occurring disorders. Using assessment guidelines can help prevent:
Of the three diagnostic possibilities in SAVVY Tip 1 above, it is not always clear which applies to any one client. Here are some assessment guidelines to help make a hypothesis on what might be going on:
Tip 1
Examine timelines to see if addiction problems preceded mental health problems.
Tip 2
Review the time relationship between substance use and mental health signs and symptoms.
In your clinical decision making, these guidelines are prompts to use. This is not a computer algorithm that spits out the diagnostic answer without using your clinical judgment.
Over thirteen years ago, I wrote in the March 2010 SKILLS about how to make expressions of appreciation powerful.
As I write this during Thanksgiving week in the USA, I invite you to ponder what you might say at the Thanksgiving dinner table when someone asks: “Let’s share what you are grateful for this year.”
There’s nothing wrong with:
“It’s been a tough year, but I’m glad you are here with me.”
“I’m grateful for all my friends”
“I love my job.”
But if you want to get in touch with what you really are grateful for and why, think first about your feelings and needs that were met. And then share your more in-depth expression of gratitude.
Here is Nonviolent Communications Marshall Rosenberg’s four step process that I first wrote about in February 2007 modified for expressions of gratitude:
Step 1. Observing means to state what you are seeing, hearing, experiencing for which you are grateful.
Examples:
(a) “This year I’ve had work, relationship and health disappointments.....”
(b) “When I think about all my friends......”
(c) “I love my job…….”
Step 2. Feeling means to state how you feel succinctly about that observation.
Examples:
(a) “This year I’ve had work, relationship and health disappointments and feel glad.....”
(b) “When I think about all my friends I feel tearful......”
(c) “I love my job and feel excited…….”
Step 3. Needing means to then state what human need(s) was fulfilled by the situation.
Examples:
(a) “This year I’ve had work, relationship and health disappointments and feel glad because you have been with me met my need for nurturance and support.”
(b) “When I think about all my friends I feel tearful and touched because they have all met my need for honesty and consistency.”
(c) “I love my job and feel excited because I need the autonomy and creativity this job allows.”
This may all sound a bit stilted and formulaic. I’m not suggesting that every expression of gratitude has to be a rigid 3-step process. But if you really want to understand the fullness of your gratitude, tuning into your feelings and needs will deepen your gratitude.
Have a great Thanksgiving dinner......and gratitude sharing.
Thanks for joining us this month. See you in late December.
David